Friendships…
Goin on the basis that this is my first blog entry, I think it would be a great start to examine the kind of friendships which people preach these days. Personally, I feel that friendships are developed along the lines of trust between one another and involves giving as much as one takes. I dont think many would have much of an issue with this. I repeat I feel. Others don’t apparently. Friendships have suddenly developed more of a suffocating aspect to them and i have seen this becoming more and more prevalent. The question that comes to my mind is what the hell to people expect out of their friendships? Realliu it is a little too much when someone demands that another answers the phone every single time as a show of friendship. Or the fact that one has to affirm the wishes of another all the time just to prove that he is a good friend. Basicaly, its too much of emotional baggage to lug around and i realli think that you can do without a friendship like that. Damn it. What the hell is the use of insisting ya want someone to call ya out anytime he has plans with others. You think ya his freakin appendage. Realli there has to be some self moderation from the demand one requires from a friendship. It aint a marraige. To all those out there with this misconception lose it. You aint doin yourself any favour. And on the issue of trust, I feel that many dont actually give a shit if they trust a person or not. Most want to lead their extremely happy lives carrying the balls of others just to potray a " i’m such a nice person" image. Thats the key problem. Image. It matters to your image who ya hang out with and why ya hang out with them. So where the hell does the damn trust come in. The best i heard yet is a friendship does not require trust to survive. SO what exactly is it supposed to survive on. Bastarding one another is it. The sadistic joy of sitting down with another pal and jackin the shit outta you peers. My my, arent all great friendships made in heaven. I heard a famous quote a couple of hours back which re emphasizes my point. It goes something like " Nowdays you cannot bastard people in peace". Im so sorry we intruded into the sanctimony of your bastarding world. Forgive me. Trust people aint something that apparates and is a freakin foundation. So when one questions this very trust what the hell is left. Ya wanna mend a broken glass. It ain’t gonna work cause the cracks never fade. Of course ya can pretend it fades. Alot of people are good at it. Not to mention even better at diverting the attention from the matter at hand so as to make the breakage unimportant. As mentioned above, bastarding is an artform. And when it comes to this, what basis does one have to keep his word to someone who he cannot even see as his friend. Does it show that integrity is at stake. I doubt so. After losing ones trust no man is gonna give his left cheek to be slapped. Just carry on with your own life and learn. Thats what its all about right. We fuck up and then have to pick ourselves up. Move on to better friendships. Really, i respect the saying of a great man. " Screw you. I got enough friends. Much better then the shit hole that you sprouted from".
Till next time mates.. Prophecised at 12:50am.
